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lorena's avatar

how sweet. our past selves do deserve more than shame. sometimes we have to look at ourselves through the eyes of people that admire us

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Kitty Killer's avatar

You're absolutely right! That's such an important exercise. I really appreciate you generously reading and engaging!

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Alyssa M.'s avatar

omg the odds of me seeing this on today! i literally was just thinking how the past cannot be changed but how we reflect on it does. the mirrors we seek for ourselves through other ppl steadily builds empathy for ourselves if we let it🤍great piece and timeless advice!

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Kitty Killer's avatar

Very beautifully written, generous response! “The past cannot be changed but how we reflect on it does,” touches right at the heart of this reflection. I hope you're finding that empathy for yourself today!

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Seph's avatar

“But the truth is, there seems to be a beautiful, enduring consistency that others trust, that people have come to know and rely upon.”

yes, there is!! yes, you are!!

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Kitty Killer's avatar

Thank you so much for walking with me!

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Reggie's avatar

Exactly! We should learn to love all versions of ourselves.

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Kitty Killer's avatar

So beautifully said! Absolutely this.

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